Tuesday, 19 June 2012

Go Bombers Go!!


Last night I had the pleasure of being a part of the Winnipeg Blue Bomber Legacy Dinner. As many times as I’ve played a role in the evening’s festivities – it remains a thrill. I try to never forget what an extraordinary event it must be for those inducted into the Bomber Hall of Fame. How can one help but reflect on all of the years, actual years, of sweat, ache and toil that brought them to this day? I have difficulty committing to an entire hot yoga class, never mind a lifetime. I’ve always found the discipline of athletes remarkable. I must clarify that I am referring to discipline in a strictly physical sense. I have spent enough hours alongside post game celebrants to know that many players have far from mastered discipline in a variety of other areas. But when it comes to hitting the gym – you’ve got to give them that.

Milt Stegall was brought in for the dinner last night, to help pay tribute to #97, Doug Brown, who took his place among the Hall of Famers. As I watched both of them be inundated with fans, all just wanting a personal moment and a quick picture, I couldn’t help but think about how exciting it is to be close to your heroes. I was awestruck my first year working the home games. I still couldn’t believe that I could ever be on the sidelines, that I had genuine friendships with actual Blue Bombers, that Milt Stegall knew my name! I realized last night that in all that time, I never asked him for a picture. I never considered that I would need one – there would always be another chance.  There is both comfort and folly in the delusion of endless opportunity.

As I stood behind the scenes in the lobby last night, the team lined up in their groups awaiting introductions, I was reminded how quickly time flies. It couldn’t possibly be 30 years since I went to the games holding my Grandpa’s hand, far more interested in the pretty cheerleaders and the prospect of an ice cream cone than anything to do with the fracas on the field. Could it really be 20 years since, as a U of M student, I became a season ticket holder in the legendary Section S? Has it really been 12 years since the most surreal of all things transpired, and I was brought in to work for a team I have always loved? Suddenly, standing before me last night was a group I barely recognized (with the exception of the wise veteran Cvetkovic), full of young men looking more like my friend’s children than my peers. Most of the players I considered friends have moved on to other lives, other careers, and I find myself in the familiar position of wishing I could go back. I promise I would remember more deliberately, I would pay more attention.  As always, the answer is no.

No matter what building they play in, or how the schedule unfolds, all I ever hope for is that the Bombers are in it right to the end. That they play smart, that they play hard, and a Grey Cup Championship would be pretty nice. Oh yeah – and could you please be sure to beat the Riders? Man I hate the Riders….

Go Blue!!

Tuesday, 5 June 2012

Serenity Now!!


For the first time ever I am at the cottage solo. This is a bit of an experiment brought on by the past few Monday mornings as I wake up, with my husband at work and wonder why exactly I'm not still at the lake? I suppose being a supportive spouse was the initial reason, but now that the sun is shining and our fleeting summer has begun, it seems a bit unnecessary for both of us to do the sad drive home on Sunday nights.
I have gone with "I'll really be able to focus on my writing" as a reason to pursue the endless lakeside experience. How could anyone argue with that? Well, my sweet husband didn't and here I am! I have come up with a few tactics to help buy me some time. I have stashed a variety of treats throughout the house. From ice cream bars to fudge filled cookies; delights that are usually banned will slowly be discovered as my time away from home drags on, thereby associating my absence with sugary goodness. It's a bit Pavlovian in design, but if it buys me a few days of serenity, what's the harm? I have also chosen weeks that are full of sporting news. The NBA playoffs, NHL playoffs and beginning of Bomber training camp allow me to fly under the radar at the best of times. I won't have any real trouble until the man gets hungry for something other than Subway.
So far my time alone at the cottage has been invaluable (you can't tell, but I'm winking...) I have watched the movies "Sex in the City", "P.S. I Love You" and a season of Gilmore Girls. It's a good thing we don't have cable so I can get away from it all and really become one with nature.

I did power up the laptop to do some writing, but instead played 47 games of Spider Solitaire. I wonder if I could convince anyone that that's my process!! It's all just laying the groundwork for brilliance and insight - oh look a deer!!

Much like inviting people to stay at your house, this idea won't seem very good for very long, but I'm riding it out for now. Thanks Subway!!
Stay Well....